Working together

When we film, we don't ask people to perform or become someone they're not. We simply spend time together, capturing conversations, relationships and everyday moments as they naturally unfold.

Families are where we learn who we are. They're where stories are passed down, traditions take shape, disagreements become family legends, and love shows up in all its messy, complicated forms.

Many people assume their family isn't interesting enough for a documentary. They imagine documentaries are reserved for famous people, extraordinary achievements or dramatic events. But the stories that stay with us are usually much smaller than that. A grandparent telling the same story they've told a hundred times. The way someone laughs. A family meal. The familiar rhythms of being together. The things that feel ordinary today often become priceless with time. These films preserve more than memories. They preserve voices, personalities, relationships and the details that photographs alone can't hold onto.

The right moment to capture a family story is rarely obvious while you're living it. Most people only realise how valuable these moments were after they've changed, or disappeared altogether.

If there's a story, a person, or a chapter of family life you'd love to hold onto, we'd love to hear from you.

Based in London, available wherever the story takes us.

What's the process?

Listen first

Every family is different. We'll start with a conversation about the people involved, the stories you'd love to preserve, and what matters most to you. There's no pressure to have everything figured out before we speak.

Find the story

Together, we'll shape an approach that feels right for your family. Sometimes that means focusing on a particular person, relationship or milestone. Other times, it's simply about capturing everyday life as it is today.

Spend time together

This is the filming stage, but it rarely feels like a film shoot. We spend time with your family, observing, chatting and capturing real moments as they naturally unfold. No acting required.

Shape the story

Back in the edit, we carefully weave together conversations, moments and memories into a film that reflects the character of the people at its heart.

Review and keep forever

You'll have the opportunity to review the film before it's finalised. Once complete, you'll receive a lasting record of the people, voices and relationships that make your family uniquely yours.

A few questions you might have:

Will this be shared publicly?

Only if everyone involved agrees. Some films are made exclusively for families, while others are shared through Relatively Speaking. Any public use is discussed and agreed in advance, with clear written consent

What if we don't know what story to tell?

That's completely normal. Most families come to us with a feeling rather than a fully formed idea. Part of our job is helping uncover the stories, relationships and moments that are already there. You don't need to arrive with a plan, we'll figure it out together.

What exactly do you film?

We create observational documentary films about families and capture real life as it unfolds, focusing on the personalities, dynamics, and stories that shape who you are. We chat together to work out what’s the best fit for you and your family and go from there.

What kinds of families do you work with?

All kinds. Biological families. Blended families. Single parents. Grandparents. Siblings who can't agree on anything. Chosen families who function like family. If people matter deeply to one another, we're interested in their story

How long does the filming take?

Every project is different, but most family films involve around 6–8 hours of filming. Some stories need less, some need more. We'll agree on an approach together before filming begins.

Do you interview us?

Yes, but naturally. We have relaxed conversations rather than formal interviews. There are no scripts, no rehearsed answers, and no pressure to say anything a certain way.

Where do you film?

Usually in your home or wherever life naturally happens: kitchens, backyards, family gatherings, favourite walking routes, local cafés - the places that already mean something to you. We'll discuss what feels most comfortable and appropriate for your story.

How much does it cost?

Every story is different. Costs depend on filming time, editing requirements and the final film deliverables. Get in touch and we'll create a proposal based on your family's needs.

Is it worth the money?

Only you can answer that. But unlike most purchases, these films often become more valuable with time. They preserve voices, stories, relationships and personalities that would otherwise exist only in memory.

We're camera-shy, is that a problem?

Not at all. Almost everyone says this before filming. Our approach is quiet and unobtrusive, and after a short while most people forget the camera is there. We usually work alone or as a very small crew, which helps keep things relaxed and natural.

How do we get started?

Reach out through the contact form and tell us a little about your family: who you are, what makes you you, and why you’d like your story captured. We’ll take it from there.

How big is your team?

Usually one person, occasionally two depending on the project.

What equipment do you use?

We film using professional broadcast-quality cameras and sound equipment to create beautifully crafted films that still feel natural and authentic. We prefer to work with available light wherever possible rather than turning your home into a film set.

If we agree our film can go on YouTube, do we need to sign a release form?

Yes. All adult participants are required to sign a release form granting us permission to film, edit, and use the footage as outlined in your agreement. For participants under 18, a parent or legal guardian must sign on their behalf. It will only go on YouTube with your written consent.

Where are you based and do you travel?

Based in London UK, travel all over the UK and beyond!

We are too boring!

You're probably not. Almost every family says this. The stories that stay with us are rarely the most dramatic ones. They're the familiar voices, relationships, routines and moments that feel ordinary while we're living them. That's where the magic usually is.

When is the right time?

There is rarely a perfect time to make a family film. Children grow up. Parents get older. Relationships change. Chapters close.